Swinging is interaction between couples for sex. It is also termed as lifestyle. Though not many couple subscribe to this lifestyle but any way the numbers appear quite sizeable if you count the numbers of swinger site that are being published on the Internet.
This lifestyle is attracting more and more couples and even some single dating women and men who are accepted by some couples for sexual liaison. The entry to swinger sex groups is not as easy as a newbie swinger couple soon finds out. Though wife swapping does takes place in private houses it most often takes place in a swinger dating club and in swingers party.
Finding a right swinger dating club is very difficult as many of them are very closeted and private. Some favor only elites. You should first try those clubs, which let you watch so that you can make sure that whether you wish to a part of wife swapping or group sex orgy lifestyle.
First thing to learn while entering swinging in a dating club is the swingers etiquette.
Which are outlined as below?
Dress in a proper manner and decently. Most clubs have rules and regulation that has a dress code - follow it. Do not stare or ogle at others or try to butt into a group. Remember within a club there are closed circles which allow entry to newbie only if they appear compatibly.
Abusive foul mouthed or sexually intoned lingo is not welcome in any club or parties. If you prefer this then you will have to form your own group that entertains such language.
Always be courteous to those you start to swing with or even consider swinging with. They may also be novice, struggling with their own insecurity and anxiety while entering a new domain.
Respect the limits and feelings of other couples. If you notice that a couple in swinging with you is uneasy with the proceedings, stop and let them decide whether to continue or not.
If you are not interested in a particular swinging situation with group, or for some reason you decide to change your mind, you have every right to say no, but try not to give an explanation unless completely necessary. Stressing out the reason could hurt them
Safe sex is the best sex. So keep condoms with you on hand and use it always. What ever the activity may be and even if the participants desire to engage in sex without condoms. Else, leave the group immediately.
Drinking in a swinging situation can sometimes decrease inhibitions, but heavy drinking can affect your sexual performance.
Stay away from drugs, as swinger couples do not usually favor them. Of course, to each his own – you might want to ask before deciding on a course of action.
After any swinging session, even if it was not what you'd hoped for or even if very enjoyable, call the couples involved the next day and thank them. This will leave a good impression in their minds, which could help you be invited back and/or referred to friends.
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